You are thinking of joining, a High-Stakes Mastermind Group for several reasons. Maybe you’re a business owner who wants to bounce ideas off of other professionals. Perhaps you want to be able to associate with others who experience the same professional, personal and social challenges and sacrifices that you do in your field. Or maybe you are looking to build your personal network of support and confidants. Whatever your reason, you should do one thing once you’ve joined the group. You should be completely honest and allow yourself to be vulnerable.
Why would you want to show your true self, with all of your challenges and weaknesses to other people? Won’t they stop respecting you so much? The answer is no. You want to be completely honest and vulnerable with your fellow members, and especially your Mastermind group facilitator, because that is the only way that they can help you diagnose any issues and help you improve to become the very best person and professional that you can be. This is the safe place to be emotionally naked.
Think about it – if they don’t know what the problem is, how can they give the advice that you’ve joined the group for?
Remember each member is in the same position. You may feel like they’re holding your emotional cards – but you’re holding theirs as well.
In the blog by William Butler, The Benefits of Being Vulnerable he writes:
Risking vulnerability allows you to be, or have:
- deeper degree of honesty
- greater degree of transparency
- higher level of understanding
- deeper relationships
- honestly yourself
- less defensive
- less lonely than that of isolation
- more accountable
- more courageous
- more sensitive and tenderhearted
- truly human
There’s something extremely freeing about being vulnerable and releasing the weight of your most stressful business decisions, confusing questions, and untried ideas. It humanizes all of us to let down our guards and be…well, human.
What may look like the weakest form of humanness is actually what takes the most strength – vulnerability.
In her TED Talk Brené Brown said, “Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable, but they’re never weakness.”
Your time is precious. Clearly, you’ve joined a Mastermind group to get something out of it. Get the most out of it by allowing yourself to be vulnerable – emotionally naked and unafraid. That’s how you can help others to help you.